Suggestion: When you decide to face the comments you’ve gotten on your novel, do so in a public place. Keeps the wailing and self-inflicted injury to a minimum.
(Please note that the amazing friends who’ve given me feedback have made helpful and encouraging comments. I am grateful for their time and energy spent on my account. But I still want to pound my head against something heavy when I see how many times I type “you’re” instead of “your.”)